Deciding to Keep Your Baby or Terminate
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Are you having difficulty in deciding to keep your baby? I can support you through the process of making such a big decision. I can help you to work through your feelings and emotions using my experience as a healing practitioner and a healing practice called The Diamond Gateways of Healing™. Whether you are keeping your baby or terminating, acceptance is the key. I can take you through processes that will help you to let go and accept whichever decision you make. I offer support in the home or over the phone.
My experience
When I found out that I was pregnant with my third child I was being investigated for abdominal pain and was booked to have a CT scan the very next day. My GP ran me and said ‘don’t go for the scan your pregnant’. Now that was a bombshell moment for me. I was in the process of doing my dance teacher training and writing a website. My two daughters where almost in school and I was going places… I was on a mission and nothing could stop me until that phone call. I was devastated. I sat with a dilemma - do I keep the baby or terminate? This process was heart wrenching for me. So I went and saw my healing friends and they supported me in working through my feelings and emotions, once these where clear my decision was made easier.
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Although I decided to keep my baby it was still a difficult road, I was facing changing my whole life. I was scared, damn scared… what would become of me? I kept going through the motions and feeling the emotions that arose, clearing them using the healing techniques I knew.
Until in the early hours of the morning I heard a voice say sternly ‘get up, get a note pad and pen and write’. I thought I was dreaming so I ignored it and I ignored it every single morning for two weeks until one day I said ‘alright’ and I got up and I sat down on the couch with my note pad and pen and I wrote.
Information just streamed through me onto the note pad. I filled two exercise books. In that very moment my life changed course again, the path that I had been on just changed direction and my life purpose had become clear. This is how The Diamond Gateways of healing™ was created. If it wasn’t for keeping this baby I may never have known my true path and I would never have had the experiences I have had that have contributed to me offering to the world what I offer.
My experience in no way, shape, or form will determine how you move through your decision. However, I have this deep personal story that may offer some insights.
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